I write this post from an observers point of view. How the people in my sessions have experienced what it was like. Many were a daughter, some a wife or partner. For the person who needs to heal from trauma caused by people in their life with so much dark, it is a whole lot of work. So how can we help?
Firstly, may I explain what is dark. Dark is simply without light. The dark in someone is strong that nothing their soul wants can come into their life. Without some of the light, no one can truly get to the place of being who they are. Keeping them hidden from themselves. So what does that look like?
If you have been living with a narcissist, you already are aware of many of the characteristics. For someone who only knows how to live as one, they don’t think there is anything wrong. They only know how to do the evil things. The things to hurt people that they supposedly love.
I have heard many stories now from various clients. I don’t think anything else can shock me. For what some people have experienced may seem unbelievable to others. Including sexual and psychological trauma. Including incest, pedophilia and rape. Or blackmail, keeping them from family or friends, constantly blaming them, making sure they don’t succeed. A narcissist may appear to people on the outside to be a great person, while the people at home bear the brunt of their darkness. Often someone can seems like they are coping but they have been conditioned by the narcissist to not say anything.
Do you know someone who is the prey of a narcissist? Maybe it is you. Or someone else who needs to see for themselves how the person in their life has deeply affected them.
Love is the highest frequency for healing. For myself, it is the frequency I hold as each session takes place. Love helps. If you are in need we would like to assist.